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844df9 No.492

This woman was a hikikomori for 3 years and suffered from agoraphobia this video she made is pretty interesting although not sure how i feel about the advice she gives at the end tbh.

7ae5a0 No.493

>emojis in the thumbnail

I can't fucking stand that. Why do normies do that shit?


844df9 No.494

>>493

>I can't fucking stand that. Why do normies do that shit?

I know right tell me about it i honestly really fucking hate those pieces of cancer so much.


a19790 No.497

>>493

It could be worse, it could be one of those clickbait thumbnails where the person is pretending that they're shocked at something that happened that wasn't even interesting.


7ae5a0 No.498

File: 11ebbfc8455691c⋯.jpg (102.98 KB, 900x900, 1:1, 11ebbfc8455691c21f2e44d14b….jpg)

>>497

I WAS RAPED (GONE SEXUAL) 2017

>So, um, like, I went to Walmart, and I asked for, like, where the meat was, and the clerk said, like, down the aisle, but, like, he gave me this look as if saying, like, I have some meat in my pants, you whore, and it was, like, totally scary, and I felt, like, so raped that I cried the entire way to Burger King. Men are, like, such pigs!

People make careers doing this stuff.


ec7006 No.501

Awhoreaphobia.


844df9 No.507

>>497

>>498

Exactly this video is shit i found it interesting but i didn't like it at all she didn't even go into detail with her story and the advice she gives at the end oh just get over it why are normies so rude?? i swear.


7ae5a0 No.511

File: 990d7315228a384⋯.jpg (89.61 KB, 500x347, 500:347, 9db088eb66f365578c3b470c86….jpg)

>>507

Because normies don't get it.

There's a picture somewhere in my massive folder that I can't find anymore, but it is a screencap of Twitter normies reacting to Wizardchan. Not even "misogynist" posts, just wizards being depressed about being lonely and jobless. Their response was, with me slightly paraphrasing:

>You should just lower your unrealistic expectations, develop an interesting personality and maybe then you'll find a woman.

They simply do not comprehend that some people have a hard time socializing. In the same light, they are unable to comprehend why someone would want to forego socializing as a whole. In their eyes, they are wonderful human beings, and so are their friends. Since that is the extent of society that they're familiar with, they can not comprehend why someone would see society as anything less than perfection.

Any arguments that hikkis, virgins or even just socially awkward people may have are inconceivable to them. In their eyes, society, and the world as a whole, is a childishly pure wonderland where everyone is nice, caring, trustworthy and betrayal is just as rare as winning the lottery.

Even if they were to be betrayed, cheated on, dumped or so, they'd turn to one of their other dozens of friends to feel good, and as such, they don't have time to even consider that society is not ideal.

To a normie, paranoia is unfounded, mistrust is irrational, reclusion is just silly and, in this case, agoraphobia is just something you get over with a little effort.


95e663 No.516

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>>511

> normies don't get it.

This is true

>They simply do not comprehend that some people have a hard time socializing. In the same light, they are unable to comprehend why someone would want to forego socializing as a whole. In their eyes, they are wonderful human beings, and so are their friends. Since that is the extent of society that they're familiar with, they can not comprehend why someone would see society as anything less than perfection.

This is also very true most hikkis are introverted obviously i have actually dealt with situations like these in the past where extroverted normies have tried to push or force me into social situations and it is just very uncomfortable tbh.

>Any arguments that hikkis, virgins or even just socially awkward people may have are inconceivable to them. In their eyes

That is because normies tend to think their always right about everything and that life and the world is amazing even though it's not they literally are so narrow minded and mean spirited.


7ae5a0 No.517

>>516

>This is also very true most hikkis are introverted obviously i have actually dealt with situations like these in the past where extroverted normies have tried to push or force me into social situations and it is just very uncomfortable tbh.

Bloody Christ, happened all the time to me too in high school. People kept telling me to attend their shitty parties and I just wanted to shitpost. I don't know why normies see appeal in getting drunk and engaging in small talk, or why they feel the need to push others into socializing.


95e663 No.518

>>517

>>517

>I don't know why normies see appeal in getting drunk and engaging in small talk, or why they feel the need to push others into socializing.

Exactly it's like they only want you to open up so they can make fun of you.


a19790 No.519

>>511

>>You should just lower your unrealistic expectations, develop an interesting personality and maybe then you'll find a woman.

It's funny how normalfags always say this despite being the most uninteresting people on the planet.

>To a normie, paranoia is unfounded, mistrust is irrational, reclusion is just silly and, in this case, agoraphobia is just something you get over with a little effort.

What's more is that the moment a normalfag experiences a fraction of what we go through they over-exaggerate their ordeal. For instance, if a normalfag were to have to spend a weekend all alone, they would panic like a bee separated from the hive. Then when that weekend is over they run out and tell everyone "Man, I was alone all weekend, it was awful. I was like a total shut-in, I felt like I was in prison! If I had to spend another second alone, I would have gone crazy!" Worse still, after their small sample of lonliness is over, they then proceed to act like the expert on agoraphobia/hikikomoriism/etc., saying things like "I was alone for a long time once. Just suck it up and go outside, it's so easy!" Normalfags are unbearable people.

>>518

>they only want you to open up so they can make fun of you.

Precisely. It's the entire premise behind 'college hazing.' Basically they find a person to force into their group, then find a way to humiliate the newcomer so they will be dragged down to the level of that group's members, all of whom are terrible people in some form. It's the normalfags' way of assimilating new 'friends.' And of course if you should refuse their 'friendship' by refusing to disclose personal details of your life for them to pick apart, then they will turn on you completely, treating you like some alien outsider and treating you like shit, because they feel they need some way to hurt you as not to fear you. I say again: Normalfags are unbearable people.


7ae5a0 No.520

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>>519

>What's more is that the moment a normalfag experiences a fraction of what we go through they over-exaggerate their ordeal.

They have to, due to the nature of their friendships. A friendship based on smalltalk and facebook maymays is not sustainable no matter what they say, so they have to make themselves out to be more interesting by exaggerating every tiny event that happens in their life.

Mother told them to eat their brussel sprouts? >MY MOTHER BEAT ME AND MY FATHER LAUGHED.

Teacher gave them a B-?

>HE TOLD ME TO SUCK HIM OFF FOR A BETTER GRADE

And if it's not that, it's rumors and gossip - completely made up but they have to make something out of nothing just to have topics of conversation.


844df9 No.527

File: 3721c1c7cffaa95⋯.jpg (101.27 KB, 720x533, 720:533, 3721c1c7cffaa95b5a04e54503….jpg)

>>519

>the moment a normalfag experiences a fraction of what we go through they over-exaggerate their ordeal

I have witnessed this first hand in the past some even complain oh i was alone for 3 days i felt completely isolated i swear normalfags are such pussies they don't understand what true loneliness is.

>Its the entire premise behind 'college hazing.' Basically they find a person to force into their group, then find a way to humiliate the newcomer so they will be dragged down to the level of that group's members, all of whom are terrible people in some form.

This has actually happened to me in the past not that long ago i lived in a group home and i

was basically forced outside because i would have to go see a therapist every other week it was apart of their rules or something the staff member who would always take me to my appointments even though i didn't wanna go because i am a hikki for god sake was a normie one time we went out to lunch after one of my appointments and i tried to have a conversation with him and all he did was ask me why don't you have a Snapchat or Instagram?? come on man socialize its good to get outside stop sitting in your room watching anime and looking at 12 year old girls on the internet not a joke he really said this and he said it loud enough so people were looking at us i had an anxiety attack and he just sat there laughing later we went back and i went back to my room obviously but seriously i can't believe normies don't understand why we hate them.


714227 No.531

>>518

>Exactly it's like they only want you to open up so they can make fun of you.

I'm afraid to open up because of some reasons and that's one of them. I've been told by a few that I should open up more. For what? Just so that I can get made fun of again? I mean, it's not because I can't take it. It's because I can't take it anymore from people who are just complete straight up assholes. And it's not just people online. Makes me wonder if they're just pretending to be a hikikomori and want to fuck things for up for the real hikis, just for fun. Damn, that's one of the worst things someone could ever do. It's already enough that I have to deal with people who are too stupid to understand how it is actually like to be one and even pretenders alike. But they come around and shit on you because it's okay to fuck up real hikis who are in a real struggle.

To me, it's not just normies but I think people in general who tend to screw over hikis are complete assholes. What's interesting part about it is that they don't think they're being inconsiderate towards the real ones. Then we also got pretenders, role players, fakers and what not who claim themselves to be a hikikomori because herp a derp, I stay home all the time. I don't really go outside. That's what it means right? I'm here thinking: This fucker……

I just can't stand those kind of people who don't take into consideration that you're absolutely not a hiki. Try 10 years, fucking assholes and you'll finally understand how it's like. Quit the fucking act.


844df9 No.536

>>531

Exactly to them it is nothing more than a edgy meme similar to the neckbeard 30yo Wizard living in moms basement they treat that as nothing more than a joke as well and to be honest i don't blame the /r9k/ robots and Wizardchan for getting upset over being mocked like that.


7ae5a0 No.541

>>531

>I'm afraid to open up because of some reasons and that's one of them. I've been told by a few that I should open up more. For what? Just so that I can get made fun of again?

You know how the cops say that "anything you say can and will be used against you"? Normies operate under the same thought process. They'll throw you under the bus the moment you outlive your usefulness or become a burden.


844df9 No.550

>>541

>You know how the cops say that "anything you say can and will be used against you"? Normies operate under the same thought process.

This is so true.


844df9 No.551

File: 8b36964ba76ce87⋯.jpg (237.42 KB, 1440x1280, 9:8, WataMote.Tomoko-Kuroki.jpg)

>>520

>When i see happy couples during Christmas i wish they would die

I don't blame her for feeling that way tbh.


7ae5a0 No.553

>>551

Back when I had a job, I remember working through all the seasonal holidays. Our [sports/outdoors] department is at the very front of the store, so we had to host all seasonal displays. Two of the worst were back to school season and Christmas. 12 hours of loud little retarded five year olds messing everything up, concerned mothers getting pissy with you if you told the kids to stop destroying hours of hard work and apathetic fathers who keep demanding discounts for one reason or another… I swear to fuck, every day I spent there was a fucking nightmare.


a19790 No.557

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>>527

>all he did was ask me why don't you have a Snapchat or Instagram?? come on man socialize its good to get outside stop sitting in your room watching anime and looking at 12 year old girls on the internet not a joke he really said this and he said it loud enough so people were looking at us i had an anxiety attack and he just sat there laughing

I'm sorry you had to go through that, anon. That guys sounds like a colossal piece of shit.

>>541

>You know how the cops say that "anything you say can and will be used against you"? Normies operate under the same thought process

Spot on. The moment you share something personal with a normalfag, they pounce like a starved animal. Can't trust normalfags.

>>553

I worked retail too once, I also had a food service job for a short time, which is a similar kind of nightmare but with it's own unique brand of horrors. There's nothing like 'customer service' work to reinforce one's hatred of society.


844df9 No.558

>>553

Sounds like hell anon.


844df9 No.560

>>557

>>557

>The moment you share something personal with a normalfag, they pounce like a starved animal. Can't trust normalfags.

This

>Im sorry you had to go through that, anon. That guys sounds like a colossal piece of shit

He is he also isn't very sympathetic ether.


533192 No.612

>doctors in the uk dont know about agoraphobia

why?


844df9 No.618

>>612

>why?

Well as i pointed out in the depression thread hikikomoriism isn't understood very well in the west even after Tamaki saitō had his book translated in 2010 and brought over seas a lot of western doctors and researchers still have not a clue as to what it is


ecd5b7 No.664

>>618

it is simply depression + anxiety + fear

it is culture bound syndrome because japs have shame society

hikkis-to-be are taken to psychiatrists in 1st world or psychiatrist is taken to hikki


984d80 No.719

>>664

>it is simply depression + anxiety + fear

>it is culture bound syndrome because japs have shame society

Almost every society has this issue.


e02428 No.745


844df9 No.749

>>745

My point was that hikikomori does not only happen in Japan but Japan is the only country where it's rampant and that takes the issue seriously i mean all of us on here should know this as we are all hikkis ourselves.


b8ec4e No.919

>>749

> takes the issue seriously

what do they do?


60828a No.924

>>541

Knowledge is power. That is why normies are always prying for more information on us. They want to hold power over us. That is why I don't tell them anything. I have seen people betrayed too many times, I know better than to trust the eternal normalfag.


844df9 No.927

>>924

>Knowledge is power. That is why normies are always prying for more information on us. They want to hold power over us

This is so true.


62ee2e No.978


844df9 No.994

>>919

>what do they do?

Japan has hikikomori help clinics and there are government programs that help hikikomoris.


034088 No.1001

>>994

they were set up because hikkikomorism is widespread in japan unlike in other nations


844df9 No.1011

>>1001

>they were set up because hikkikomorism is widespread in japan unlike in other nations

I know i just wish something like that existed outside of Asia that way there at least be support for hikikomori outside of Asia.


a19790 No.1018

>>1001

It seems to be fairly bad here in the US as well. Perhaps not as wide-spread as it is in Japan, but these days seeing men living with their parents into their 30s, 40s and beyond is becoming all too common. The worst part is that rather than trying to address and fix the problem, people here in America either make fun of it, ignore it, or try to capitalize on it for profit by pushing people into purposefully ineffective therapy and other scams.


844df9 No.1019

>>1018

Exactly it's all about making money rather than fixing the problem someday if i ever do get out of this lifestyle i would love to create a help/support system for Western hikikomoris.


a77c95 No.1046

>>1018

burgers are not niggers, they can think and check efficiency of different therapies

i hope




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